In the last couple years of my 20’s I began to question the belief that we have to work hard & sacrifice to earn our allowance of yearly living & when I turned 30, after a decade of searching for work to define who I am & continuously coming up short, I decided I wanted to just be happy

I understand now that what I was fighting for was the opportunity to LIVE & LIVE WELL without sacrificing the part where we live

I wanted to just be able to be me in a world where someone was always telling me who I should be from the moment I was born

I watched my parents work to take vacations where they spent the first few days of that week "unwinding", or what I know now as [re]regulating an internal system stuck in a state of fight or flight from built-up stress

I also [re]awakened my intuition, [re]opened up to my spiritual team, [re]connected with my soul, & [re]discovered a Universe that is in support of my greatest, grandest, & humblest desires

at 30 years old, I finally decided to tune the world out, I had tried it their way & decided it wasn't for me

I [re]discovered that we are not here to earn our living, we are here to live, & continuously [re]define what living gets to include

I decided my life is mine to [re]define & I began the healing work I now love to reveal layer after layer of programmed beliefs, external expectations, buried emotional trauma, & generational patterns that made me feel unworthy & unlovable

my 2 sweetest little loves💗

toby & mia